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Devaki Sokaris

Live the life your soul wants


Articles to help you with your relationships.

1:What’s the perfect relationship?1y
We are not perfect, so our relationships will not be perfect. What we want may not be what we need for our growth.
People place a lot of importance on having a fulfilling relationship. For many they feel life is not complete without it.
3:Relationship counselling fails1y
Relationship counselling for couples often fails because an understanding of what each is contributing to the partner dynamic has not been established.
4:How do you handle conflict?1y
Why is it that some people feel they need to be right or yell over others when they don’t like their perspective?
5:When do you call someone a friend?1y
People use the word friend flippantly these days, you only need to observe social media to see that, so what governs what a friend is, and what does it really mean this thing people call friendship?
6:Forming attachments to people1y
People don’t usually form attachments straight away, but it happens when one starts to develop expectations after spending a lot of time with a person. The attachment isn’t really to the person but more about how they feel about the experience they have when with that person, and the emotions the person brings up in them.
7:When is the right time to start a new relationship?1y
Are you between relationships or have not long been through a breakup and you are contemplating getting out there to find another soul mate?
8:Core values in relationships2y
You need values so you can live your life being your real self. Know what your core values are, and you will have a road map to live your life by that inspires you to be happy.
9:Grow from those with different values1y
Age, background, what we have experienced, and learnt in life will determine our values, and how much wisdom we may have. We will not share the same opinion with many people we cross paths with in life, but I always say smart people make the most from who they do not agree with.
10:Create healthy boundaries47w
It’s important to create healthy boundaries in life and not allow others to put pressure on you to do things that fulfil them.
11:Controlling people8w
Controlling people have a need to manipulate their surroundings to feel safe. They often use their pain to get others to do what they want, so they feel in control of the situation.

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