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5.True friendship

When one understands we are not here to fulfil the preconceptions of another's needs, but rather to challenge what their real needs are, then a good relationship is formed.

Some people are in co-dependent and in toxic friendships, thus at the mercy of other people's needs. Unfortunately, they think this is true friendship.

Have you ever noticed how many children have true friendships, as they have not yet been programmed and influenced by the neediness of others, and made to feel responsible for other people’s happiness and fulfilment in life?

The best relationship comes without unrealistic expectations or attachment to outcomes. You simply enjoy each other for who you are when you connect, not what you can do for them.

These relationships are rare thus few and far between, and many will never experience a friendship or relationship like that in their life.

As we mature in life it becomes a clear reality that these friendships are pretty much non-existent as many come with unrealistic expectations and agendas.

Many are still searching to find people that fulfil their needs when the responsibility is theirs. Only when they are willing to take responsibility for their own lives, is it then possible to experience true friendship.

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