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Devaki Sokaris

Live the life your soul wants

1:What’s the perfect relationship?

We are not perfect, so our relationships will not be perfect. What we want may not be what we need for our growth.

Soul mates are put together for the souls learning, so they will be challenged in ways that they wouldn’t be if they were on their own. Outcomes will be in what the couple are willing to overcome as an individual and together.

When there is enough love between people they have the support to work through challenges that may arise within the conflict of their personalities allowing a couple to still love one another even though for a short time they don’t like each other very much while going through this process.

It is those challenges that provide opportunities to evolve as a person and ones that build respect, shared values and enough love to withstand and overcome many issues. If one can say their relationship is better than the day they got married or committed to one another, they are experiencing as close to perfection as it gets.

One must work for a successful relationship together as a couple with each owning what they bring to the relationship dynamic. A relationship that survives the storms is one where two people are committed to heal and grow together.

When two people support one another in being true to themselves and discovering who they are a union is created with more love as they embrace their purpose together.

La-la land ^

One of the many issues is when people go into a relationship with unrealistic expectations. You can see the failures in the relationships of those who live in la la land. To expect a person to fulfil all one’s needs is unrealistic and many of those needs are also part of the inner work not outside ourselves.

People place way too much importance on a relationship defining who they are. In an ideal world it would be better if most understood this better and had done more inner work on themselves before thinking their soulmate is their saviour.

People are often quick to decide the grass is greener on the other side when the going gets tough so duck out of responsibility. What you don’t deal with follows you so there’s no getting out of what one needs to learn as the soul will find another avenue or destination to make this happen.

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