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Devaki Sokaris

Live the life your soul wants

4.Perfect relationships

We are not perfect, so our relationships will not be perfect. What we want isn’t often what we need.

Soul mates are put together for the souls learning, so they will be challenged in ways that they wouldn’t be if they were on their own. Outcomes will be in what the couple are willing to overcome as an individual and together.

When there is enough love between people, they have the support to work through challenges that may arise within the conflict of their personalities, allowing a couple to still love one another even though for a short time they don’t like each other very much, while going through this process.

These challenges provide opportunities to build respect, and the potential to overcome many issues. If one can say their relationship is better than the day they got married or committed to one another, they are experiencing as close to perfection as it gets.

One must work for a successful relationship together as a couple with each owning what they bring to the relationship dynamic. A relationship that survives the storms is one where two people are committed to heal and grow together.

When two people support one another in being true to themselves, and discovering who they are, a union is created with more love as they embrace their purpose together.

One of the many issues is when people go into a relationship with unrealistic expectations. To expect a person to fulfil all one’s needs is unrealistic, and many of those needs are preconceptions that need challenging.

Many people believe a relationship defines who they are. In an ideal world it would be much better if more people worked on themselves before thinking their soulmate was responsible for their needs.

Some are often quick to decide the grass is greener on the other side when the going gets tough so duck out of responsibility. What isn’t dealt with follows one, so there’s no getting out of what one needs to learn, as the soul will find another avenue or destination to make this happen.


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