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3.Do you wear your heart on your sleeve?

Some people are internal processors, and some are external processors. Which one are you?

Wearing your heart on your sleeve can say I’m vulnerable right now, but I’m not ready to deal with my issues, so please don’t challenge me.

Those who like to keep their issues private like to deal with them privately rather than with others or publicly. This also doesn’t mean they are ready or want to make changes in their life.

What does someone expect from others when they tell them their worries? That can be like a trick question because you don’t know what they want given they haven’t actually asked for anything.

This may leave someone feeling What am I supposed to do?

Often, they only want to express it. They may be looking for sympathy, empathy, understanding or just to offload in some way.

If you’re around people who need to do this often, how does it make you feel?

Do you tell others your problems?

Right balance is not hiding your issues, but NOT dumping them on others.

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